Northern Californians who work in the bay area have some of the longest commutes in the country. In fact, Stockton has the largest number of super commuters in our entire state. So how do you keep your family life on track when you’re spending 3 to 6 hours a day getting to and from work? Marriage and Family therapist Megan Bearse researched and wrote a book on super commuting couples and says for the commuter, switching your mindset when you leave the office to head home is key: